the fact that we often refer to our own genitalia as “down there” and refuse to mention it by its actual name speaks volumes on how we really are afraid of our on anatomy
No worries, it’s an interesting question!
I occasionally get an erection while putting it on, but that’s about it. It’s not that I’m mentally aroused, but just the handling of the penis will sometimes trigger an erection. Sometimes the device will go on easily despite the erection, other times I wait for it to subside and try again.
Yeah, that would make sense. Urine and semen would be a terrible combination all around.
It’s something I’ve heard of in some people. I think often it has to do with how you masturbate- particularly, I’ve heard that frequent vibrator use, over time, can dull the clitoris a little. I imagine that might be temporary rather than permanent, though, but either way, I don’t know if that’s the case for you.
Has anyone had experience with losing sensitivity over time and can chip in?
As for penises, rough masturbation can certainly contribute to that, particularly if the roughness is on the glans. It’s the same idea as a circumcised penis losing sensitivity over time from rubbing against clothing.
Update: All of the myths about them, including them being unclean is STILL untrue. Foreskins are still awesome in my book and I still prefer them.
it just drives me crazy like
circumcision is entirely elective. you don’t fucking need to do it. almost no one is circumcised in europe and they’re doing fucking fine, they’re not all dying of fucking gangrene. the health benefits are incredibly debatable and certainly do not even begin to outweigh the risks and negatives.
and if you want to circumcise your kids because you like circumcised penises better, 1) stop worrying about how sexually attracted you’ll be to your kid’s penis, 2) I guarantee it will not keep him from getting laid in 20 years because there are plenty of people in the world who aren’t so incredibly shallow that an uncut penis is literally a dealbreaker, 3) it’s really gross that this is an argument when if a man even says he likes clean-shaven women six thousand people will reblog it saying men’s opinions on women’s body hair is irrelevant and calling him a pathetic sexist asshole, but women can literally advocate cutting up little boys’ genitals because it’s more sexually pleasing to them
like does no one understand how fucking ironic and disgusting that is
Circumcision is just you wanting to be a lazy fucking parent. “I’m too lazy to teach my child how to keep their dick clean so I’ll just cut off the extremely sensitive skin!” Why don’t we cut off the shell of the ears because you apparently can’t be bothered to teach them to wash behind it?
i have many questions about what its like to have a penis, first of, are you always aware of it? like is it’s presence constantly at the front of your mind?what does it feel like just hanging there? does it move around when you walk? do your balls bounce when you run? does it hurt? and what the fuck does a semi feel like? little help guys?
are you always aware of it? like is it’s presence constantly at the front of your mind? - Nah. I mean, some people (including myself) may think of it a more than others do, but overall, I’m not thinking of it *that* much more frequently than any other body part.
what does it feel like just hanging there? - You tend not to really feel it unless you’re actively thinking about it. When you do notice it, it’s usually them rubbing against your clothing, or your balls against the inside of your thighs. You don’t really feel any weight from it hanging, or at least I don’t.
does it move around when you walk? - Just barely. Depends on the how tight/loose your underwear are.
do your balls bounce when you run? does it hurt? - The package in general flops around a bit, more than the balls specifically. It never hurts though.
what the fuck does a semi feel like? - You can usually feel a bit of blood rush, sometimes a very slight tingle. It’s not an overwhelming feeling though, more like you just feel a bit of heaviness as it engorges.
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I wonder how the myth that it’s impossible to pee with an erection even got started. Unless maybe it’s not a myth, and some really can’t? Everyone I’ve ever asked says it’s possible, though. Annoying and uncomfortable, but possible.
can u pee with a boner
Yes, but you have to strain harder, and it’s more difficult to aim, so it’s not really worth it.